Hyderabad greeted me with its usual blend of chaos and charm. The traffic was as unpredictable as ever, and the heat? Still enough to make you question your life choices. But this time, I wasn’t attending a conference with a group—I was on my own. And yet, my mind was still full of the memories of the last time I was here, back in 2010.
At that point, I had just completed my MD in Medicine. I was freshly minted, a bit dazed, and, frankly, still trying to figure out how to be a real doctor. So when the opportunity arose to attend a two-day gastroenterology conference in Hyderabad with VK sir, I jumped at the chance. He was a teacher we all looked up to —calm, confident, and a veritable fountain of knowledge. Meanwhile, I was just trying not to panic whenever someone asked me a question.
What made it even more memorable was the fact that we flew to Hyderabad together from Pune. I couldn’t help but feel a mix of awe and anxiety, sitting next to him during the flight. Here was this towering figure in medicine, and there I was, hoping my seatbelt wasn’t the only thing I could manage to keep together. But he was relaxed, as always, talking about everything from case studies to casual observations. His calm demeanor making me realize that there was no rush in this journey we were on.
Once we arrived, we stayed in the same hotel. I remember walking into the lobby, pretending to be cool and collected, while internally screaming. While I was just trying to keep it together, he was casually engaging in conversations with the everyone around. It was like watching a Jedi at work—completely unflappable and always two steps ahead.
That evening, after a long day of lectures, we ended up in the hotel restaurant together. I was convinced that I was supposed to keep the conversation academic—“So, sir, about that case study on IBD…” But instead, he asked me what I thought about the conference, about where I saw myself in the field. He made it clear that while knowledge was vital, so was finding your own path. It wasn’t just about what you knew—it was about how you approached the journey.
During the conference and on numerous occasions afterwards, I learned a lot more than just gastroenterology. VK sir had a knack for making complex concepts seem like they were second nature. But what really stuck with me were the brief moments and quiet encounters in our association, where he would subtly guide me through the complexities of both medicine and life. He didn’t rush, he didn’t push; he just shared his wisdom in a way that didn’t make you feel overwhelmed. And that made all the difference.
Now, walking through Hyderabad again, I can’t help but feel a mix of gratitude and sorrow. VK sir passed away a few months ago, and with his passing, a part of my own journey feels a little quieter, a little less guided. He wasn’t just a mentor to me, but to almost every gastroenterologist in our organization. I can confidently for all gastroenterologists in out organisation and many physicians that he would have met that his teachings shaped the foundation of our practice, and his influence lives on through us. I laugh at my younger self, thinking I needed to have all the answers, all the time. But VK sir showed me that sometimes the most important thing you can do is ask the right questions and, more importantly, take your time.
This visit to Hyderabad isn’t just a trip down memory lane—it’s a quiet homage to a teacher who, without saying it out loud, taught me more about life and medicine than I ever realized at the time. His legacy lives on in the lessons he imparted and in the many lives he touched. I carry his wisdom with me every day, and though he is no longer here to guide me in person, I will always remember the quiet strength and brilliance that made him so extraordinary.
Hi 👋 . Wonderful piece of of write with complete emotions and true relation of soul to a devine soul. God bless 9
ReplyDeleteA moving post Sir.. befitting tribute to a teacher and a gentleman!
ReplyDeleteSuperb writeup sir..
ReplyDeleteEnjoyed reading 👍
A Dr writer, wonderfully narrated, Nice tribute to your inspiration
ReplyDeleteTruly a heartfelt post, Sir...enjoyed reading every bit of it...👏👏
ReplyDeleteInspiring read Sir!
ReplyDeleteLooking forward to your next post!
Truly touching and emotional writeup sir. Beautifully expressed the message … 👏👏
ReplyDeleteA wonderfully written homage for a great teacher from his humble n talented student. A great mentor is hard to find, difficult to part with and impossible to forget. Keep shining Dr.Atul.
ReplyDeleteWonderful write up Atul
ReplyDeleteGreat homage to a teacher
There are a few people in our lives who leave a mark and help us realise the true purpose
Great tribute to a great personality. Never seen such a simple, calm, and smiling physician with vast knowledge and experience. Richly deserved.
ReplyDeleteI just finished reading your beautiful reflection. Thank you for sharing such a heartfelt and evocative tribute.
ReplyDeleteYour words paint not only a vivid picture of Hyderabad and your early days in medicine but also a deeply moving portrait of VK Sir—both as a brilliant mentor and a remarkable human being. The humility, humor, and reverence with which you’ve written made the piece both poignant and inspiring. It’s a reminder of how the quiet influence of a good teacher can shape not just our professional paths, but our outlook on life.
Great guy! Sad that he died young
ReplyDeleteAtul, a great portrait of a great man. Now, I can understand you better. Your teachers, mentors and friends form part of who you are.
ReplyDeleteA beautiful and profound tribute to your mentor and a great doctor. Your humility and brilliance have always been inspiring and I am sure your mentor would have been equally proud!
ReplyDeleteSuperb Sir.!
ReplyDeleteIt’s heartfelt reminder of how the best mentors shape us in ways we only fully understand later!!
Sir was a great teacher. May his soul rest in peace. Nice to remember VK Sir through your blog Sir.
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Very nice
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ReplyDeleteAtul you demonstrate a remarkable sensitivity, introspection, and eloquence in this deeply moving tribute. With a calm yet powerful voice, you craft a narrative that flows effortlessly between memory and reflection, creating a sense of intimacy and reverence that drew me as a reader.
ReplyDeleteThis piece not only reveals the depth of the your relationship with your mentor but also showcases your talent for storytelling that is both evocative and dignified. It’s clear you write not just to share, but to preserve meaning—a quality that elevates your work and leaves a lasting impression.
We, (Vijay and I) were married to two sisters. Kiran and Sunita. Knew him since 1985. Vijay had a halo around him of positivity, calmness and sanity. His presence induced confidence and support. A man of rare genius went too early and too painfully. May he turn a star in the sky ever to shine and smile.
ReplyDeleteHi Atul, a beautifully written, emotional and a heartfelt tribute to a great clinician, inspiring teacher and a wonderful human being.
ReplyDeleteHi Atul
ReplyDeleteCould not have been a better ode/ homage to your mentor and pathfinder.
Your easy and life like description made us almost instantly know the wonderful personality … VK Sir
Really appreciated this post Atul! Your writing is clear, engaging and thought-provoking. It's always refreshing to come across content that invites reflection. Looking forward for more!
ReplyDeleteHaving the privilege of being his MBBS batchmate at the MLN Medical College, Allahabad in seventies and a very close friend till end, all I can say is that he was many folds more than what you could sum up in this very beautifully written memoir on him !
ReplyDeleteThose we love don't go away
They walk with us everyday
Unseen unheard but always near
So loved so missed so very dear
Vijay was a good human being, full of wisdom. Not many like him around any more.
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